... are only fun for about 2 seconds and then you realize how useless they are. I mean, sure, things happen and sometimes those things might suck a little bit, but what's the purpose of focusing on them?
A friend sat in my kitchen one night and told me all about how her life was just going right down the tubes. She threw herself a big ole pity party right there at my table. At the end of a lengthy description of everything going wrong in her life and about 30 minutes full of self-pity, she looked at me and asked, "What should I do?" I looked right into her eyes and gave her ( I think) the best advice I have ever given anyone! "Stop it!"
Stop feeling sorry for yourself! You're missing the lesson God may have for you in your circumstances.
Stop complaining! You can't hear God speak if you don't stop talking.
Stop whining! You're just proving your lack of faith.
Stop acting like a victim! God made you to be a victor through His power.
Stop doing things you know are going to hurt you! God did not create you to be stupid.
Stop chasing away your friends by being a "Negative Nancy"! God created you to be an encouragement to those around you.
Stop working under your own power! God created you so that He could work through you.
Stop acting like you don't know what's going on! God has clearly shown you in His word how to live.
Just stop it!